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And so it is, my friend.
See, I know you. You're a coach or heart-centred entrepreneur, of course, and you've been making some impact in the world for a while now. That's the easy bit. But the truth is that it's still really difficult to get noticed, respected and paid, in this busy online world, right? Hard to stand out in an industry loaded with privileged, popular, wealthy, sunkissed women, with teams of underlings and 5-figure ad budgets, who're drinking-champagne-while-getting-windswept-on-their-yacht and dancing around celebrating their 6-figure launches all over TikTok. The fact is that you've never had it easy. Never felt unconditionally loved, accepted and valued exactly as you are. And you've had to work hard, woman! Had to fight tooth and nail for every single thing you have created so far. And there's no respite on the horizon. Perhaps, like me, you were dealing with parental chaos, and emotional and financial insecurity before you could walk. A bit of an outsider at school. Taken for granted as an adult. And all that shit leaves it's mark on your psyche, doesn't it? Plus it's hard. Hard to show up consistently. Hard to claim your authority so you can get noticed, respected and well-paid when the algorithm seems to favour all the Coach Barbie types and their Malibu Dream Lives.. Even though your work is so much more valuable and life-changing than the regurgitated marketing shit they're selling. All of which just reinforces those decades old stories that you're just somehow not as good as them. Not as deserving as them. The popular people. The cool kids. The golden ones. So allow me to let you in on a secret. You have a super-power. You get to stand out precisely because you're not like them. At least, you will do once we unravel the underdog stories that are keeping you playing small and empower you to stand in your expert authority. Empower you to embody your Coach Badass self. Empower you to be, IRL, the you who wholly believes in yourself and the magnificant value you're bringing to the world. See as long as you're still buying those underdog stories, and putting your desires on the back burner until you've made "enough" to pay off the mortgage and the credit cards and take care of everyone else, and working your own self to the bone, and cricticising the shit out of yourself for not being further forward, and being angry that your life is always so fucking hard, it's pretty impossible to believe that you're a badass genius with a powerful gift who deserves to be noticed, respected and well paid, right? And if you don't believe it, then what's the likelihood that your content is irresistibly drawing in clients who believe it too? I estimate the likelihood to be somewhere around 0%. Add in the fact that you're still censoring yourself; treading on eggshells trying to say the "right thing" and being oh so careful not to be too honest in case it upsets your mum, your in laws, your ex, or whoever else might be stalking your social media. And surprise surprise... Turns out that showing up in your business with all these caveats is about as much fun as a colonoscopy. And so you and your marketing have ended up being (almost) as exciting as a lubed camera up the rectum! The truth is, my friend, that even though you're a motherfucking genius with amazing work to do, the best (soul-aligned) folks who are exciting to work with and know how to take your insights and create magic with them, can only discover and fall in love with you once you start falling in love with yourself. Once you start turning the pain of your past into rocket fuel. Once you start prioritising yourself and your desires. Once you're bold and uncensored and excitedly waxing lyrical on what matters to you. And once you're unashamedly speaking your truth. So if you're gonna realise all that incredible potential inside of you, get the respect, make the impact, make the BIG money (not because you give a shit about the money but because you want an expansive life and that takes plenty of money) then you're gonna wanna get busy losing the stories of how messed up you are so you can finally empower and fully express ALL of your irresistible self. So you can finally be seen, heard and appreciated for WHO YOU ARE. Get the right people listening to you (like REALLY listening). Hanging off your every word because their soul recognises your soul. Binge-consuming your content. Buying your offers like hot cakes and reaching out to work with you privately. And transforming their lives with your magnificent work. And guess what? It's all available to you RIGHT NOW. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BIG FUCKING DEAL, MY FRIEND. AND IT'S TIME FOR THE WORLD TO KNOW ABOUT YOU! |
